I had a reader leave a comment in a previous post about carrying a bag with confidence without having it being mistaken for a fake. I must say I fully agree with her thoughts on carrying any bag with confidence; which has crystalised in my thoughts today.
The key to pulling off any outfit or bag or look is self-confidence. If you think you look good, everyone else would think so too! Its like The Secret or the Law of Attraction - good feelings attract good feelings.
It isn’t only about carrying a branded bag. I’ve noticed that most people who carry the real thing tend to have that confidence anyway, no matter how the bag looks. They are confident that no one can call their bluff because its the real deal.
Its also about the confidence to carry a certain style and design of a bag. You might like a certain style or design that no one else likes. I’ve seen many bags I don’t like either, since its all to do with personal preference. However, I’ve seen the same or similar bags on some people and instantly, it looks good on them because they project an image of being comfortable with what they are carrying. (Photo courtesy of swanky)
However, I know of people who carry knock-offs of popular branded bags with just as much confidence as they carry the real thing. With all that confidence oozing out of them, you’d be hard pressed to call their bluff anyway. Sometimes, it isn’t even possible to tell a knock off or a fake from the real deal.
Taking LV as an example (since its at the centre of such controversy here
) I’ve since discovered that LV can customise your bag for you, if you want a specific design in a particular material which they don’t carry in their regular line. So, its not necessary that a bag design that you see on someone’s arm is a fake if it isn’t in the regular catalog. And if that person is carrying it with the confidence that it is the real deal, you wouldn’t dare call it out for being a fake anyway (even if it is).
In a discussion about bags once, I was told by someone that some local celebrities or high society don’t even carry real branded bags, because of the prohibitive costs in keeping up with the new designs that come out every season. So, (I was told) they carry (high quality) fakes. If true, I think its shocking. But you see, most of the high society ladies carry their bags with such aplomp and confidence, you couldn’t even tell that it isn’t real!
So, the reader has a good tip for all bag lovers. Carry your bags with confidence that you look good carrying it and everyone will believe you!